I'm still confused lol
Why do girls want to be friends after break up?
I'm still confused lol
What Girls Said 15
I don't lol I think it's just HELLA awkward remaining friends or still in contact with someone I just broke up with. It's like damn you used to kiss them and hug/cuddle them.. (If you had sex with them, well there you go) it's just REALLLLYYY awkward when you reach that stage.
Friends doesn't mean you hangout every weekends and go to the movies. Saying friends is just making general truce. So no hard feelings, no anger, no resentment, and we're not enemies. That's what friend squally means
I legit thought we could be friends. I didn't know everything would get complicated.
That was my reason.
I honestly can't do it. Usually there's a reason for my break-ups, such as cheating or abuse, things that are unforgivable to me. So I have no desire to have anything to do with the guy usually.
Girls want to be friends after a break up mainly because they may still care about you and don't want to loose you.
It's a way to lessen the blow of losing someone she's talked to multiple times throughout the day, even when she is the one to break up with the guy. Just saying it and having him agree is almost like a bit of a truce that they won't be enemies afterwards.
The only way this could possibly work is if the guy and girl give each other space right after the break. At least a solid two weeks of no contact. Up to a month is best. After that, you both know you can live without the other. Only then would you be able to make a friendship work again. Even then, things just won't be the same.
I really have no idea why so many women want to be friends with an ex. Personally I think it's best to just move on.
We don't ~ Taylor swift
I think some girls want to be friends because a friendship shouldn't be ruined because of a relationship. You should be able to be friends after you guys break up.
I'm not sure why girls do that maybe because they want to keep the person around for a while as a friend, they probably still care about them. I personally could not be friends with an ex, its just weird to me and it solves nothing. I tried being friends with my ex and it solved nothing it just made things awkward. I believe that if there was cheating whatsoever in the relationship I see nothing wrong with it. But some people just aren't okay with the idea of being friends after a break. Plus my ex and I we never started off being friends when we first dated. Weird? Yes, I know.
Guys havese asked do me to remain friends after a break up. It's not girls it's just some people feel better keeping the friendship especislly if they were friends first and in the case of mutual breaks it's not hard.
Because we think it's possible to be friends or it'll make the breakup less painful. Ex's can't be friends, though. I've learned this. Always be civil, but don't be close buddy-buddies.
What Guys Said 8
Honestly no matter what reason a girl will conjure up, being friends after a breakup is a terrible idea! Its way too painful to be around eachother like that. Maybe you can be friends a year after the breakup, but they need to understand that a guy can't get over them with a snap of their fingers. It takes time, and it can't happen at all unless there is no contact while they are healing.
Only to use the guys as their emotional outlet. Being friends after a breakup is a VERY bad idea.
They care about you but not in that way. They're felling are of love but not romantically.
Some guys want that too...
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