My ex bf said he won't invest emotionally in me but loves me and has strong feelings for me, he said he has emotional pain from our breakup, how can I change this? I've tried everything nothing works, he's been meeting random women on tinder, having sex soon after our breakup but gets mad at the fact that I brtter no have sex if I'm still trying to get him back. Why would he care if I had sex or not? When he's doing it. I want to be with him, but he doesn't trust that we won't argue, says he needs to be single. I don't feel comfortable taking him back after he's been around and by being apart I know I won't consider it after the 'fun' is over, how can I get him to invest his emotions back.
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You can't, because he's not allowing himself to fully commit to you and trust you. He doesn't trust you, and there's nothing you can do about that. Trust takes time and it takes proving to each other constantly that you're the one for them. But honestly, if he's having sex with random women all the time it doesn't sound like he's ready to be committed anytime soon. He said it himself, he needs to be single. Respect that and let him go.1