My ex bf said he won't invest emotionally in me but loves me and has strong feelings for me, he said he has emotional pain from our breakup, how can I change this? I've tried everything nothing works, he's been meeting random women on tinder, having sex soon after our breakup but gets mad at the fact that I brtter no have sex if I'm still trying to get him back. Why would he care if I had sex or not? When he's doing it. I want to be with him, but he doesn't trust that we won't argue, says he needs to be single. I don't feel comfortable taking him back after he's been around and by being apart I know I won't consider it after the 'fun' is over, how can I get him to invest his emotions back.
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Ugh I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm going through a breakup, too. It sounds to me like he's filling the emotional void by seeing other women. That must be an awful feeling for you :( but you need to just leave him alone. I know it's so hard, but he won't get to miss you if you are always around. Let me ask you, what have you done to try and get him back?0