My ex and I broke up over a month ago because one day he ignored me and I ignored him right back (which was wrong but I'm petty) and later that night he sent me a text saying "so are we done or not because I really don't care anymore" and well I got hurt and was upset by that so I said "yes, we are so done" (we broke up in the past once, and got right back together so I thought maybe I'd give him a couple days or something and we'd get back together again, we're definitely not an on and off couple) well after I sent that I apologized and we were back together kind of, we didn't really say it so the next day he wanted to get lunch together and my reply was "only if you're not gonna ignore me again" and he said "well you ignored me too so it goes both ways" and I don't remember exactly what I said but I told him something about him not caring if he was in a relationship with me and he said "I kind of care and kind of don't" so we broke off again and again later that night and the next day, I tried getting back with him but he didn't want to. He was telling me how he has changed and isn't the same person anymore and he was too hurt. He said he was tired of me getting attitudes and tired of when we argued. Which wasn't a whole lot.
A couple days before this all happened, he was being so sweet towards me like he always was (he wasn't an asshole boyfriend) he was telling me how I have this "sass" (attitude) that makes him want to keep fighting for me and want to be with me and work harder, that he loves me so much because of not just who I am but what I can be and just a whole bunch of sweet stuff.
We were together for 2 years.
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first of all, why did he ignore you? you don't give any information on this.
you say you're not an on and off couple but the fact that you've broken up twice, and then break up again within two days of the second break up, pretty much means you are an on and off couple. you can't break up 3 times and say you're not off and on. xD you just can't.
you need to make up your mind about him. he tells you he's changed, from when? from your last break up, he's a totally different person? he's not. he just needs an excuse to bounce.
it seems like a dumb reason for breaking up. "he ignored me so i ignored him back" lol come on. you're 16 years old and you obviously don't know how to handle a real relationship. :/
you both don't seem happy and he said he doesn't care if you get together or not, so just let it go. you're young and you need more time to grow and learn who you really are, and how to act in a relationship.1