I'm a newly single 45 year old who has had only one sex partner. Is this something that I should avoid talking about
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Actually yes. Why should you talk about your past sex life with a new potential partner?
If you don't feel comfortable or are a bit shy, or want to wait, whatever, that's fine. But I wouldn't talk about past sex life.
If my bf spoke about past sex life it would put me right off! I don't want to talk about what he has done with other people or imagine it. Would you wanna know about theirs? Or just happy to feel like it's all new together?
If someone you date asks you about previous sex life I would think that imature. Teeneagers say 'how many people have you slept with' to bfs or gfs.
If you feel the need to talk more deeply about it, talk with a friend you can trust... not a new potential.2