At the time I thought maybe he needed time to cool off, so I was ok to wait for when he was feeling better. Usually, he's ok again after a few days, but this time, two weeks is unusual and I haven't heard from him at all. He's not the shady type so I know that there is no other girl in the picture, and prior to this fight, we were very much in love with each other (we hang out with each others friends and family, and had made a bunch of vacation plans for the next few months).
It feels awful that he hasn't reached out to me at all since the fight. Can he really still be thinking about it for so long? If he wanted to break up with me, why didn't he just say so when I asked him?
Most Helpful Guy
Two weeks and NOTHING?
I'd say very good chances it's over. At most, "some time to think" really shouldn't take more than a few days--3-4 tops, so I've no clue wtf he's doing.
It seems like a break up. It's just very surprising that he isn't saying it. Lame. Especially after having been together for almost a year.
(also, if you guys are already getting into that many fights w/i the first year, perhaps it's better that you're not together)
Most Helpful Girl
It seems with taking this 'Break' now here, he is also taking his space with time needed that he may be enjoying a bit because he never had much of a chance with your romance for 'Almost a year' and hopefully counting, to do. Give him some more time and let him do some soul searching.
However, if it gets to be a Month of Mondays and he hasn't reached out, you need to contact him and ask him what's up? Ask him where you stand and if he is happy to Continue this Break that you feel he is hinting around as "Maybe we should break up."
He may be mulling over in his own mind that he doesn't want to be in a Real Relationship right now. He could get real cozy and comfy with you both doing this Break and get used to it.
However, many times over, Break or Break up, there is always the Missing the Kissing and the history you both shared that always play a... part.
Good luck. xx