I pay anywhere from 700-1500 dollars every 2 months to spy on my GF. I thought this is a good idea becasse in case she is cheating on me i will get hard evidence. I don't see anything wrong with this, what do you think?
Is it bad that I am paying Pi's to check on my GF every once in a while?
What Girls Said 14
If she is a fabulous girl to be with, why not come clean and tell her what you've been doing? That way if she's really awesome and understand, she'll forgive you for it and you can move forward. If she breaks up with you, then you can chalk it up to lesson learned because you can't be trusted and neither can she. What you're doing is deceitful, yet she hasn't done anything deceitful towards you. You are spending an awful a lot of money on something that has so far been useless. So you now know she's faithful - great. You've kissed your money goodbye when you could have taken her on some nice vacation but chose to do this shit instead. See how much of a forgiving person she is once you tell her you've been doing this all behind her back.0
I think you are a very paranoid man and she deserves better... that is all lol trust comes both ways, your wasting your money on such trivial things when you could of used that to treat her and yourself... instead you use it to spy on her... if i was with you id start noticing things because i'm highly observant, this gf may not be but what about the next gf you pull this on? it's not to notice the same type of cars following you...0
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Has she ever done anything in order to make you suspicious? Or is your phobia completely irrational?
There are better & less pricey ways to find out whether she's cheating or not. You don't have to pay 700-1500 dollars. Use your brain.0
"you obviously don't understand how things in real life go"
And you do, you pay thousands of pounds to have some dude follow your girlfriend because you think she might cheat on you, despite her giving you no reason to suspect? You're a lion, a total fruit loop. Sooner or later she'll find out and your stupid little game will ruin everything.1
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Obviously you don't trust her. You should really think about why you don't. Are there specific signs? In that case you should really talk to her and see whats going on. Or do you have trust issues? In which case you would be doing this with anyone. It is really not ok to spy on your girlfriend. You need to talk to her or some professional to work on this. I can only imagine how stressful it is to spend all that money and wait for something to happen. And if she finds out, she will more than likely be pissed. I repeat, it is NOT ok.1
I smell BS.0
I thonk there's a good reason why you asked this under "breakup and divorce". It's a sign. . .1
if you don't trust her just get a new girlfriend.2
If you don't think there's anything wrong then why are you asking?
I smell a troll.1
You must have money to BLOW! In that case, have at it. Is it bad? Yeah. Either you don't trust her or you have trust issues.0
For $700-$1,500, you could buy better trolling lessons.0
Not sure why you're with her if you can't trust her.0
do you know how many pizzas you can buy with that sort of money
Wow that's fucken creepy and if she hasn't gave you a reason why do it. You have issues bro.0
What Guys Said 5
That's no way to have a relationship. If you don't trust her (which you obviously don't) why don't you end the relationship? But what you're doing with the surveillance is just crazy.1
yeah that's some major trust issues bruh lol0
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