So we were together for 10 years & have 2 kids. We had issues but always got over it. In Nov. He started saying that he wasn't happy & he was so stressed out (work,money,school loans etc.) So then one day he said that he was leaving so he did on Nov 2014. After he left of course I wanted him back. We were seeing each other having sex etc. So then in Feb . He got into a car accident that changed everything. He started acting all depressed & didn't want to talk to me. He told me that i should move on & that he didn't love me anymore. I was so heartbroken. So i decided to give him space & leave him alone. So now i found out by him that he started talking to someone already. How do guys move on so quick.? This sucks!
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I guess it depends on the situation beforehand. I left an abusive relationship after 10 years, and started dating again 2 months after I had moved out on my own. I didn't need time to grieve my relationship because, in my mind, I had been over it for well over two years. I'm not saying that's what happened with you two, but if he'd been struggling with the idea of leaving for a while, that could explain why he's moving on already. In his mind it's been over for longer than when he actually broke the news to you.1