Until recently, conversations with my ex were either bluntly friendly or arguing (mainly because of me feeling hurt and kicking off). I basically went psycho bitch and he understandably would get angry about it but he would still try to be decent towards me and always said he wanted friendship. He wasn't nice after the break up either though, he would brag, rub things in my face, tell me about sleeping with girls etc but he apologised and stopped. He planned to meet about a month down the line.
We met up the other day and all was fine, he hugged me for ages and we seemed to be getting on good terms. I know he still cares and loves me and it showed. He seemed to be smitten with me again after that meet up.
Recently, we were speaking and I guess I said something that was related to the relationship (I can't remember what) and he said he couldn't be friends with me because I keep bringing things up about the relationship. I sent him a long closure text message but then said I wouldn't bring up the relationship, that I want friendship etc but he ignored it. I text him on April fools day saying I was going to prank him but I couldn't now, in a friendly way but he ignored it. I sent him a link to a car that was for sale that he'd like and he saw it the next day but ignored it. I hoped I could show him that I could be a friend to him and hoped we could get on good terms again but he's ignored me since Monday. On Thursday, I said "I'm sorry. I won't talk to you again".
Since that day, he's barely posted things online and he's stopped friending random girls. I'm planning on not contacting him now for at least a month, hoping he'll get in contact. What do you think the likelihood is that he would get in contact again? Have I ruined my chances with him? Do you think no contact will work in making him get in contact?
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I'd at least give it time... and make sure you hit the brake before you send emotional messages again... in the end you've loved each other for 2 years so that could be what brings you back together.
I mean: both feeling you've done the efforts you had to do to repair the situation.
Don't dare to speculate on how large the chance is though.
But I really really hope it for you. You deserve this since you see your mistake and do your best :-)1
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