I was so pissed because I felt like I was alone so any time he wanted to talk about us and going back out, i would shut him up and change the subject. I felt confused and didn't know what to do. Eventually after a couple of months of dating the next guy, I started cheating with my ex and rekindling everything. Until I ended it with the new guy, and decided on focusing on what made me happy, my ex.
Months went by, and I decided to quit because I just wanted to get away from all that drama and he quit right after me!!!! Without even saying anything, he said " You got me this job and we promised each other we'd leave at the same time" so it made me think, maybe he still likes me?
Its been a 4 months now and he's not talking to anyone. He asks to hangout with me every single day and go places. My problem is every time I mentioned if he still likes me he tells me no. He even said "I just don't have the same feelings anymore and I don't want to be in a relationship where my head and heart aren't in it". It crushed me but then he gives me all these mixed signals. We still have sex occasionally and he'll kiss me, hug me, try to cuddle and he's doing everything we'd do when we went out. But He's hot and cold ALL THE TIME!!!! The other day he was all lovey dovey and then when I got home from work he was very standoff'ish . Like I could tell something was bothering him. I'm just tired of waiting around