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He is playing games honey. Please don't fall for it. My sister had the same situation and forgave the guy. After my niece was born, she and he got back together for a time. Then she found out that he cheated on her. I really thought she would learn from it but she again forgave him and is now married to him. She talks about wanting to have a whole family and wants her daughter to be with her dad, which I can respect. What I don't respect is allowing a man to treat you like that and not changing and her raising their daughter to be okay with a man treating her like that. By my sisters actions she is telling her daughter that it is okay to let a man treat you like crap and disrespect you and cheat on you and that it is okay because he shed a tear and said I'm sorry.
I don't know if your story will be that way but, by the sounds of it, you two had previous issues before you split. Ask him why he is doing those things and tell him how they make you feel. If you don't want them to happen, tell him that they are unacceptable and that if he can't control himself, that you won't put yourself in a situation to have them happen. Its very hard to tell someone you have such strong feelings for that you don't want them to feel that way anymore but you have to, to give yourself the power to move on.
I wish you the best0