Your totally head over heels for a girl so inlove with her she ticks all the boxes. You have a argument because she went through ur fne .you end the relationship ! Do you just need time to cool down? What would you want her to do ?
Guys, need good honest mature advice?
What Guys Said 17
Honestly I cannot buy that is all there is to the story. there has to be more.
There shouldn't be anything on his phone that is so secret that he has to hide it from the woman he loves.
At the same time, you have no reason to ever touch his phone without permission.
I was guilty of this and my ex wife and I had a big blow up. I realize I should not have touched her phone. Of course I found out later she was cheating so that was the reason she didn't want anyone in it.
I have no problem handing my phone to my girlfriend to look at anytime. she has never asked, but I would
but it is a matter of boundaries.
But if that truly is the only issue, then once he cools down you need to talk through things and they should be fine.
but honestly it is not something that , if everything else in the relationship is really OK, that you break up over.
so either things are worse then you think. or you not giving us all the details.0
That would never happen to me to begin with because I would never leave my phone unattended OR without a lock on it. If my GF asked for my password I would CHECK her ass in an instant, simple as that.
Also if I broke up with her over something like that... that would be the end of it I guess #aintnocomingback1
I wouldn't care if she went through my phone. If she did and still wanted to be with me after seeing all the weird shit in it then that's great for me, I want to marry her then hahaha!
Maybe text or god forbid, call him and tell him you still like him even after seeing the weird shit in his phone?0
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Grow the fuck up. Is this "woman" five years old? "If it's not yours, don't touch it," is one of the things everyone is supposed to know before entering the big, big world. Mobile phones didn't change anything, and anyone who thinks they're entitled to violate another's privacy like that needs to have their fucking head examined.2
Hmmmmm, trust issues?
Why did she go through his phone?
What did he have to hide?
My wife and i have no secrets, and i do mean none...
We know what each other has done with whom in the past, and are completely open, honest and understanding/ compromising in our relationship...
Thinks you have some trust/ honesty issues on both sides to deal with.0
Why do you need to touch his phone? Besides all the new phones have a pattern lock system, he could easily lock it.0
i have nothing on my phone.
Honestly people who get mad about someone going through their phone have something to hide, something that they don't want their partner to see which ISN'T a good sign.0
she went through ur fne? what?1
If you can't trust him enough not to go through his things then your better off without him. If he freaks out about that then chances are he's cheating on you and breaking up was his way to give up before he got caught.0
We don't have as much stamina at that age.0
My phone is rigged to overload the Li-po battery and explode if tampered with. So, No I wouldn't break up with her I would call an ambulance.0
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