I am moving to the same city as my ex gf. We were really close friends in college but she broke up with me (distance, just want to be friends, etc..). I couldn't be just friends with her bc that's not what I wanted so I stopped talking to her. She texts me occasionally, but she always intitates it. She is always nice to me, but I know she doesn't have feelings for me. It's obvious bc I always liked her and she never wanted anything. Now I'm pretty sure she is seeing someone who is long distant from our college anyway (which really pisses me off). She expects to hangout with me when I move to her city in a couple months but I honestly don't ever want to see her again. Does this make me come off as a jerk? She doesn't think she ever did anything wrong and probably thinks I don't like her anymore. (it's been 1.5 years)
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Pretty normal as long as you are on the same page.
Being friends with exes have their ups and downs.
Since you clearly like her and have some hostile feelings because she broke up with you, you'd be better off if you weren't friends. It would give you the chance to forget about the break up. If you want to move on with your life and not relive the breakup and bad feelings, its fine.0