My ex keeps contacting me but today I found out he took another girl for a drink and kissed her. So confused as we were trying to. get back. on track?
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he doesn't sound very invested in you. I think you should move on and stop wasting your time with someone who likes to have you for the sake of having someone reliable while he tries to get around with other girls too. it sounds like you're just something "safe" to go back to for him. you gotta find someone better.1
This guy sounds very immature, selfish and perhaps even incapable of being in a committed relationship. He texted girls behind your back when you were together, and when he was caught out he said he wanted to take things slow. He is the one who made the mistake. Usually the ones who have the right to demand for things to go slow are the ones who have been wronged. I might be very harsh and strict in this respect, but if this had been my boyfriend, he would have to play by my rules if he wanted another chance with me.
The fact he is still talking to girls after all this and takes them out and kisses them while he tells you he wants to eventually get back together with you is disgusting and disrespectful. He knows he hurt you when he texted girls behind your back, a normal and caring guy would do everything possible to show you that he can be trusted and that you should be with him. He does the opposite.
I think you should try to move on and forget about this guy. You deserve to be with someone who respects you and actually wants to be with you. If you're being objective (and I know it can be hard sometimes), the future with a guy who's done this sort of things to you cannot be very bright.1
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