Today I was planning to see him for the night, he sent a text this morning as usual and was so cute and said he couldnt wait to see me with all the cutesy emoticons. I was in class, about an hour and half later I got a new message that was so long, and he was saying that he doesn't know how I feel but since we promised to be honest with eachother that he doesn't see it working out due to the distance factor. he said that his heart hurt so much to send the text, and it wouldn't make sense for me to come anymore because we would get closer and then it would be harder. He said he was teary eyed and so upset.
My heart is literally broken. Why would he act like he wanted a relationship and treat me in such a way and then decide this...
I have never been more upset about anything ever in the past and I seriously don't even know what to think or do about this. :(
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Distance relationships are really hard.
I imagine he was on the fence for the longest time about the issue.
I know you probably don't want to hear this but I think he was being realistic! A two hour drive each time is a lot... your looking at 100's of miles probably.
I don't doubt that he really liked you... and felt the same connection but each time he was probably projecting ahead, and going down every road and figured you would end up seeing less and less of each other.
I know it sucks for you... but it sounds like he may be hurting too! Not all guys are dogs... he may have even looked at it in a very mature manner and said, this is going to be really difficult and no matter how we do this, I am not going to get the time I actually want to spend with you.
It sounds like he is a really nice guy the way you describe him, so I think he may be trying to still be that nice guy by being honest with you spare you even more pain down the road.
Correct me if I am wrong... perhaps he was a total ass about it... but that is not what I get from your information above.