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My ex and I met in middle school. We dated throughout my sophomore year of high school for about 5 years. Then suddenly he broke up with me out of the blue giving me no closure whatsoever. Its not easy I'll tell you that considering he was my first love. It took me about 5-8 months to get over him. He broke up with me. It was like right out of the blue, he tried to get up and go but I tugged unto his arm. I cried on his shoulder to and he didn't know what to do. I asked him if I could have a hug before he left. He gave me one and then he left. I felt broken for a couple of days, couldn't walk, etc. I felt like I was shaking inside, and I felt like my life was all messed up. Its hard getting over your first love I must admit it. It takes time especially since he and I go to high school together it took a lot of time for me to lose feelings for him. After a couple of months of us on no contact I suddenly fell out of love with him. I'm not looking for a relationship right now or anything I'm just trying to focus on myself. A valuable lesson that I learned is that I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy.