I broke up with my girlfriend for 2 days now, before I did, I called and texted her, but she did not answer my call or text back, so I texted her that I am breaking up with her and left it at that. I had my reasons and did really try in this relationship, putting in more effort than I'm willing to for her and trying to resolve issues between us, be she just can't understand or see that. I do truly love her, but my heart couldn't take anymore, so I am wondering... If she cares and truly loves me, will she come looking for me? I am currently doing NC.
Most Helpful Girl
... So I texted her that I am breaking up with her and left it a that...
I feel sad that the way you went about it, no matter What your problems were with her in this relationship, that face to face wasn't used with one another to Do--------I am breaking up.
She may or may not come back to you and then again, you both someday could end up as friends in the end... only God knows for sure.
Just because two people Break up doesn't mean they can't and don't Make up and that it's Good-bye, my love forever. And you are so right... if she cares and truly truly loves me, she will be looking for you, even... currently doing NC.
Good luck and God's blessings. xx0
Most Helpful Guy
Most men don't have the inner strength to do what you did. You actually discovered that this girl was not for you. You had already put her on notice for her selfish attitude and uncompromising ways. You actually breakup when she was unwilling to do her part. Most men would have stuck with her and been miserable for the remainder of the relationship. Worst yet, they could have married her, had kids, and been rewarded with a painful divorce.
What ever you do, don't return to this woman. You have shown her that you meant business by leaving. Although it won't be easy for you, especially when she begins to attempt contact, remain the course. Most men return at this point for another beating. Just remember that what ever caused the breakup to begin with will still be! Nothing will change.
Keep up the no contact rule no matter how many times she tries to get a hold of you. If her interest in you has not fallen below the half way point, she will make attempt contact, but if her interest fell below that point, she won't.