Hi there. I'm currently working, and my gf is studying. We have been together for about a year and a half. Recently we been fighting and arguing a lot, and I find myself to be the one always apologising and begging her to stay. And we argue everyweek at least once. We are currently both away from each other and she says that I don't give her enough attention and that I'm a workaholic. I feel that sometimes even though I'm not at fault she thinks I'm wrong and at the end I'll be one apologising for small things. And we are supposed to go for a week vacation together a fortnight away. But we just got into another argument, and she says that we are over. I know she says that when she's mad, but u don't know whether I can stand it in the relationship. Is this how it's supposed to be like, I have to be more understanding and admit my fault when it's not? Should I apologise and try again if she wants? I'm feeling tired of being the one trying to patch up everything. Is it my fault? And if we do breakup, should I go for the vacation alone? What am I going to do? I paid for all the hotels already. Please advise.
Most Helpful Girl
You two definitely need a break from each other. You've been together for a long time now and it seems like the cracks are starting to show. It's better to take a time out for a while so both of you can get some perspective on this relationship. Pick another friend to go on the holiday with you.. that would be my best suggestion.2
Most Helpful Guy
Take this opportunity and run. Run far and run fast. Your relationship is toxic. Get out now.
I personally would see if I can get my money back, or at least part of it for the hotels. If not. Than you might as well go.0