Basically we went on a break about a month ago, I am pregnant right now Ill be 6 months next Friday . But I had a hard time leaving him alone I kept asking for him back and accusing him of talking to other girls. A month went by the break turned bad and I found out he's talking to someone else. But I he realized he doesn't love her and he loves me, I find it hard to forgive him. Should I? I mean its very hard for me to forgive him for seeing someone else, but then again I "pushed" him to it by constantly begging for him back and accusing him. Again I don't want to lose the father of my baby who isn't even here yet I am not as financially stable as him. Should I forgive him? How can I even though he wants me back but Im so mad he dated someone else while im pregnant. What bothers me the most is thinking of him wanting someone else, kissing them and basically missing them. It makes me very upset. But he never loved her and he only loves me.
Most Helpful Guy
You are living in a fantasy world. Once you are pregnant and not married, he will chase other women and there is nothing you can do about it. Let him go, if he wants you he will be back.1
Most Helpful Girl
... But then again I "pushes" him to it but constantly begging for him back and accusing him. This may very well be baby blue true jenniidas, however, with 'We went on a break a month ago,' he started 'Talking to someone else' and took this 'Break' for granted, where he may have wanted to spread his wings and had decided he didn't want the both of you to be two birds of a feather.
However, 'He wants me back' and as hard as it is to stop picturing him in the arms of another, baby or not, you Have to now. You both need to Think of this little blessed event and work as a team. The rest will follow when when if this bough becomes a bond, let sleeping dogs lie, try and work through these trust issues and pray.. the cradle will not fall at all.
Of course with him 'Cheating' the first time around, I cannot make any promises it will not happen again. But if you both live under one roof and stick together, this little sweet innocence may be the answer to your prayer where... He only loves me... forever.
Good luck and Congrats.:)) xx0