Then he text me last night. He said he was sorry we never got a proper chance to talk about everything that happened. He then offered to give me and my friends tickets to a sports game (he works in sports) as a way of apologising. He also finished the text by saying that he just afraid of real commitment. I text him back telling him that I wouldn't take him up on the offer and that I didn't see why he still couldn't just properly apologise for what he'd done. I also asked him why he decided to say all this 2 months later. What possible reason could he have for this? I really don't know how to process his text. I feel like he's trying to keep me on the hook for a time when he might possibly want a girlfriend or whatever. I just really feel like he owes me some closure and that it would be really helpful to sit down and chat. I dont' know how to get him to do that though, nor what I'm supp
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He could just be having confidence issues in him self. I went through a big phase of that last year and had an off off thing pretty close to this. I actually really did love the girl I was just really broken inside and had no confidence in my own choices. Was she right for me? Was I happy with her? so on and so forth those where the things in my head. Eventually I hurt her to the point where she stopped trusting my sincerity so when i was finally ready she just found me annoying and scary. You really have to talk to him and ask him whats going on and try to figure it out.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Hun don't do it. I have been in this kind of situation, he will say all this to try win you back because he "cares" for you and "loves" you and all that. My ex did this to me and I was stupid enough to fall for it and we dated for 6 months before I ended it with him because of the way he was treating me like I was nothing to him. Yeah things were great for the first few months but after that he just stopped putting the effort in and it was starting to hurt me. At the end of the relationship he said some really nasty and hurtful things to me and then about a week later turned up at my place and was saying how much he was sorry was all the things he said and that he wanted to work things out and that he would change but I told him that it was too late and that I didn't want to be with anymore and then a few days later he text me to say he had just had sex with his ex girlfriend before me and again he said some really nasty and hurtful things to me.
What I'm trying to say here is babe you deserve someone way better than him! If really cared about you he never would've left you to begin with and he would've tried everything to keep you but he didn't so he isn't worth it hun.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE