Hi, so for a while I had this girl who I would talk to pretty much everyday. Overtime the friendship grew into more and all the signs were there that it could be something more. However after a while she grew cold and distant and she told me she was seeing someone else, even after saying she had feelings for me a few weeks earlier.
So long story short I told her I can't be just friends with her and just told her we need to stop talking. So for 6 months I didn't hear from her, but one day she started talking to me again, just to "check up on me" I was pretty annoyed by this.
Anyway, we spoke for a bit and reluctantly I accepted her request be friends again... so 1 month on I've realised this friendship is causing to much pain and I can't move on with her around.
So after all this, should I tell her we're done? Things aren't the same? Just leave me alone? As this clearly is only working for her.
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I had to go through a similar thing during this week. I was also confronted with a situation where a friendship with someone I was in love with was too painful so I had to discontinue it. If you cannot enjoy this friendship without wanting more then yes, you should end it and tell her you are done. You don't need someone in your life who causes you pain and misery. You said yourself it's only working for her so why bother? It will be a good decision I think to tell her it's over and that you can't be friends again. Even though you have been through it before , this time make it clear you are not looking for friendship and want to move on with your life.0