Okay so I can usually get over a guy once I have realized that I have no chance or something like that but I started liking this guy a couple months ago and we went through a lot and we were not even dating but then we got in a fight and we are no longer talking but no matter how hard I try I cannot forget about this guy like I keep remembering all the good times we had and it really hurts me and I don't even think he cares? Am I crazy?
- CrazyVote A
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- Just a girlVote C
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You didn't have an option "D" which would be "Just Being Human".
You can't help who you like, and there are people you have much stronger feelings for and chemistry with than others, so not all breakups are created equal.
I went through the very same thing a few years ago, and I swear it took me forever to forget this girl. I wouldn't even look her up to see her picture, as I did not need any more regret or grief knowing she was gone. I've had more serious relationships with people where I was fine when things ended. But not with this girl. There was just something about her. But, I guess it just wasn't meant to be.
You'll get over him in time, and it's okay you're struggling. That just means you have normal human emotions and feelings like the rest of us, and you're going to have stronger attachments to some things over others.0