I have been talking to this guy for a year now , and we just decided to start dating in February . I'm a very social person , he is very non-nonchalant/ shallow type of person. We are in high school and at school he's like very distant. we would be at lunch and he probably wouldn't say anything to me but he might talk to my friends , and when lunch is over he might get up first and walk to class and not even wait for me and i always express my feelings to him , i even ask if he's embarrassed to be with me. he always tells me he loves me and cares about me and he often do not express his feelings , not even in his past relationships. He's the type of guy who wants me to kiss his ass and wait on him hand and foot. im not use to that , im use to being the one being babied. it seems the more i express my feeling to him nothing changes. i would ask for a kiss in the hall way , and he probably wouldn't do it. I meet his whole family and his friends , they are cool and they really like me.