help? i am in love with this guy and we were going out until a couple hours ago he broke up with me saying he can't be with me if im not completely his and i asked what he meant as i am his completely and he said that he can't go out with my when i still love my ex and this other guy as well! i told him so many times now that i ONLY LOVE HIM!!! but he won't listen and keeps saying maybe in the future after i have proved him that i dont love the other guys then we can try again but that i have to prove to him that i dont love them!!! but i dont know how to prove it and i DONT LOVE THEM ONLY HIM!!!
Most Helpful Guy
He sounds like a head case with major insecurity issues. Do you really want that in your life? You can't answer that objectively, but trust me; if he's wishy/washy now, it will only get worse.
Give him some mandatory space and contact him when YOU are ready to do so. Don't leave it up to him. There's nothing worse than being with an overly jealous partner where you feel like you can't do anything to make them reassured.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think you try and clear up the misunderstanding by just being alone with each other with no interruptions and just say what your both thinking and what you feel... He might feel insecure or something to be feeling that way...0