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I never understand this obsession with men or women about this dreaded "looking pathetic" or "looking desperate". If your really worried about that then you are pathetic or desperate or whatever you want to put in there.
When it comes to finding the person you want to be with, if you truly want to be with that person you do everything you can possibly do. If that doesn't work, you do even more and try everything again. You never stop trying until you are sure you have exhausted every possible option.
Never look back and regret loosing the person you loved or wanted most. If they are who you are supposed to be with then you will never look negative in their eyes.