My bf and I live together everything has been great. Lately he has been acting very distant and is glued to his cell phone. The other day he called me and asked when I was coming home because he was going to hang out with a friend. I don't know why but it seemed strange to me so I decided to go through his phone. I know that I shouldn't have done that but I knew something wasn't right. I found out he lied and went to hang out with a girl. So I confronted him about he was very quiet. He finally came around of course he said she was nobody that he's not doing anything. He apologized and was trying to reassure me that I was safe with him. I just don't feel like I can trust him anymore.
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Has he given you any further info on the girl? Who she is, how he knows her, etc? Could it actually really just be a friend? Of course it isn't right that he wasn't open to you about it, and it isn't surprising that you cannot trust him anymore.
I don't know if you should break up. I think you need to think about it for a bit but if you cannot regain your trust there isn't much point in the relationship.0