Please help me... I feel horrible and don't know what else to do.. I recently broke up with my ex.. We were 1 year and a couple of months... He was ignoring me for the longest and gave him chance after chance and never change.. I got tired... He says he loves me to death but I don't understand his love... He was an asshole and sent me a video of him asking a girl to prom.. He first ran to one of my friends to ask for his help so I got mad and didn't answer his phone calls... So he ended up sending that video... It really broke my heart... Now I see him online talking to her... And I feel so down and really bad.. I'm so hurt... Any advice on how to deal with this? the idea of seeing him with someone else hurts... Even though I know I can't take him back either way
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When i broke up it felt like it wasn't only my heart that broke but my whole body and mind. If you are like me then, just a heads up here, it will take quite a long time to feel better. You will feel better when you arrive at the conclusion that you don't actually need other people to feel better about yourself.
To reach that conclusion you should: break all contacts with him. Every single thing. You already know you can't take him back anyway.
To help you cope with the bad feelings that's gonna creep up on you, you could: meet new people, try something you've never tried before (ever tried archery before? it's fun), go out with friends, go out with parents, have a pet, and many other things. Basically whenever i got my heart broken, i got myself busy. When i'm alone and feel i have to vent, i do it. I punch pillows one night and cried into them the next day. Just go through it. It will pass.0