I left my ex about 2 and a half weeks ago after finding out he had been cheating on me. Our relationship started to go stale when I got a great job with long hours; he has a job too but it's standard 8 hours, mine's 12. He still expected me to cook and clean up after him, so when we DID have sex, it was just to get him off my back because I was exhausted. Then I find out that he's been fucking his ex girlfriend. Needless to say, his stuff was on the front lawn and I had taken his key.
I took him off social media and blocked his number, but recently I got a sling of messages from a mock account - from him of course - saying that I'm a heartless bitch. He basically is trying to justify it saying we didn't fuck enough (we did like 2 times a week) and that if I loved him I would have worked it out.
What the fuck? He cheated on ME. How can he say I didn't love him when clearly he didn't love me?
So, here's my question: when someone cheats on you, should you give them a second chance?
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I am with you on this. Once bitten twice shy. It's typical to do the little kid finger pointing when they get found out about. Eg. If we had sex more often , I you had treated me better. If you had only cared and showed me more attention , etc etc and the list just goes on.
He chose to do this knowing full well it was wrong , he screwed the pooch and didn't think he would get bit? REALLY !!
Breaking up always sux , and no one ever wins , some how ever loose less that others. Some will learn the consequences are indeed real on the first time of being caught ( guys and gals alike ) some never learn. You have to decide which he is , and do you want to give him another chance.. Ultimately that's your call to make. Good luck1
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