He told me today that he was cheating on me with men for our whole relationship, and that he found out that he prefers men to women, although he enjoyed havign sex with me. He doesn't feel any guilt at all. I am completely out of my normal here...
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Ouch! That would hurt. I would rather be left for another man that for my woman to tell me she found out she is gay after being with me. That is about the most painful way to break up with someone. He should have just broken up with you and left out the part about being gay. That was unnecessary and hurtful information.
To be honest he sounds like an asshole if he doesn't even feel any guilt for hurting you at all. Even if he didn't mean to hurt you and had a good reason to break up with you, he should still feel bad about hurting someone that he supposedly loved for 5 years.0