Dated for 1.5 years, I initiated the break up because of family disapproval (but i didn't tell him that, he thought I didn't love him). then i immediately regreted, asked him to get back together, we agreed to work things out, then broke up, and finally he agreed after 3 months apart. A week later we spent a night together, misunderstanding happened. He started to ignore my call and texts. Then he went back home called me when he was sent to hospital due to eplepsy attack, I freaked out. Waited him to call after he came back, no respond, went to his house couple times, ended up with more confusion. I felt like there was misunderstanding that I had to explain, and he turned me down every single time. Last time we talked was before Christmas, I thought it went well. But next day he txted me "do you know how creepy it is to show up at my place unannounced? you hurt me, your disrespect and dishonest left me no faith between us, I'm not going to reopen this into my life." So I thought it was over, wished him luck. This January, he saw me at a party, txted me "." A period. My friend (also his coworker) told me later that he told him that he saw me and was confused then disappeared. I didn't respond. 1 month later, he txted me "hey", I said "hey". No respond. Then his entire family unfriended me on fb. then 2 weeks ago, I got a snowman icon text from him sent at this valentine ( well we built a snowman last valentine). I got really confused, txted him a long mesaage, saying "I don't like you playing mind games, asked him about his mixed signals, told him I'm open to talk, apologized for my part of the fault and reminded him the good part of our relationship. if he wants to work thing out, then he should make a move. If he has no intention, then we stay friends. However if he just want someone to flirt with ocassionally, he's come to the wrong person. "
Then I got blocked by him on Facebook (I unfriended him right after we broke up)
Did I do anything
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... I initiated the breakup...
This was what Actually started the ball rolling here, dear, and from where I am sitting, it has been escalating ever since then. It's been many Misunderstandings, too many "He said, she said," and it got to the problem point of coming back to where------What did I do wrong to deserved to be blocked?
It seems to me he feels too that you have been "Playing mind games," and with this, he has got the whole family who 'Unfriended' you from Facebook.
I also see, where it doesn't have to be etched in stone, that there doesn't seem to be any hope left, everything you both tried has been Tried and failed, and now, like he is trying to do... moving on his your next best stepping stone step in what to do next.
Good luck. xx1