How do you let go of someone who really mattered to you. I go through a cycle of where I'm depressed, then it flows into a spiteful person and then I usually lock it away. I've been going through this for a about I don't know 4 months now. there's times where I want her to burn, and other times where I just want to hold her again. I know it won't work out between us we have to many underlining issues, and I just can't put myself through it again. I don't want to remember her anymore, I don't to remember hearing the steps to my room, or the smile she carried when I made her happy. I'm tired of it, I just want to let it be.
I'm asking in the woman section to see from an more emtotional stand point, obviously all my guy friends are like "fuck'em." Which makes me laugh but I just don't see how its that easy.
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I distract myself from thinking about them by doing school work or vent it out with someone who will give me good advice on how to move on. It's normal to break down and cry about it, regardless of your age or gender. A heartbreak is painful and it takes a toll on your energy. It sucks and you don't want to be like that because there's other pressuring issues that are more important than your ex. Do whatever you can to make you stop thinking about her. Stop yourself from listening to song reminding you about the break up or her. Avoid at any cost! Focus on your hobby. Make some positive changes for yourself! Practice these and you'll end up thinking about her less and less. It'll take a while but in the end it's all worth it. It almost took me about half a year but I was feeling fine and back to myself prior to him. Progress makes a difference and it's time for you to stick your head up high again and move on with your life! Wish you the absolute best and keep those eyes looking forward, not backwards!0