I am happily married now for one year. He knows this. He has a gf. He will not stop emailing me. The emails are not nasty or threatening, but I can't move on with him bothering me. I had to block him and her on Fb. I want to tell him off but when I do he gets really nasty with me. We had a horrible break up. when I finally got him to move out and he became obsessed and controlling, calling and texting me constantly. I was meeting for the first time my now husband and my ex left 30 voicemails, 15 text all in one day. I had to change my number. I had to go to the police because he said I will be sorry and he said I will show up at your job one night. How can I make him stop for good? Any suggestions would really help.
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Wow! What a crazy man. I'm sorry you're going through this. You're really doing all you can if you changed your numbers and contacted police. Make sure you document every threat he makes. Are you able to get a restraining order on him? I know some states are stupid where the person has to physically give you permanent brain damage before the police are allowed to do anything, but if you haven't looking into it, I would.
Have you also changed your email addresses? I know that would be highly inconvenient, but it might be necessary so you can try and cut off every line he has to bother you like that. If he's calling you at work, that's another issue, but hopefully there's a system in place to screen his calls.
Damn, what a nut case, and I hope everything works out for you.1