If he admited to you after two years of living together and having your first child together, that they got with you as a rebound and will not ever be a normal relationship is happy right now, but does not see a longterm future like marriage, that they felt sorry for you in the begining but now loves you and loves your personality. However, they do not act like a normal S/O because you are not even near the physical attractiveness to the S/O that they rebounded from and there is no spark with you, therefore the affection that they give you, even privately and imtimately is a minium. And they always fight with you because of unresolved anger from the past relationship. However, they don't want you to leave because they love you as a human being, who you are and dont want to be alone.
Also, the thought of you breaking up with them makes them say that they are going to fight until they die to keep the child with them and not you when you are the sole care-taker. (they work fulltime, you are stay-at-home)
- LeaveVote A
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oh, i m really sorry for you. i hate when people get in this situations when a lot of emotional suffering is implied.
and to answer your question, i would leave! not until they are alone will tey realise what they lost. maybe he will realise that he acrually loves you and he will want you to come back. who the hell makes a baby with a person they don't actually want to be with for the rest of their life?1