My boyfriend and i broke up a day ago. Because of distance, we have a 2 year age differnce so he has more freedom then i do. We argued, swore then later we decided that we showed try to be friends. How do i try to build a healthy strong friendship with him? Because i still want to be with him and i believe that someday we could get back together
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Just because two people Break up doesn't mean they can't and don't Make up and that it is Good-bye, my love forever. And with an EX who Still Marks an X in his own soft spot, Briana20, there is usually motive in mind when a 'Break up' comes around With-------We decided that we should try to be friends.
Being it is LDR, One of the hardest ones to Have and to Uphold of Any relationship, then I feel you both made a wise decision and decided to leave on a good not, not a sour note Forever with grudge bearing and Swearing and made this pact to 'Try to be friends.'
If you are doing Skype, which I would imagine you are here, dear, Continue with what you are doing. Keep the relationship friendly, pleasant, don't bring up anything to do with your split, at least for now, and learn how to be friends with open lines of convo that may be Both your Best friend in the end.
I have a husband still out in Egypt and with coming back to the states 3 years ago, we have had Many Break ups and Make ups and even in the end, with the Middle East Burning and our own personal relationship dissolving, much of it my own fault, we had too decided to be friends.
However, with some jealousy, words that were said that involved the past and in the heat of the moment, we would make the same Mistake over and over again, splitting up, not talking for sometimes two months at as time.
Don't allow yourselves to come full circle in the same pattern He and I have followed. It's Not 'Healthy,' it Weakens a relationship, a Friendship to the point where things may never... Get back together.
Go slow with this flow and nurture and nurse it, it's something new now. There could very well be room for more in store, a chance for romance, but the best way of knowing is showing... friendship in beginning anew beguine.
Good luck. xx1