Most people would be lucky to be loved by the opposite sex just once in their life and when they are loved treat that person with sheer comtempt and a joke someone to laugh at.
i feel worthless I feel like telling that person they are wrong the things they say about me, but I'm scared to.
Why do they get to be happy?
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People who are narcissistic are usually miserable on the inside, but too much in denial to ever know that. They move from relationship to relationship, without looking back, figuring everything is always the other person's fault, yet not really caring anyway. They're all about self-indulgence and fulfillment, and don't care if they put anybody out or hurt them in their quest to satisfy themselves.
The payback comes when they've reached a point where their friends have all left them, because the narcissistic person will have burned all his/her bridges through using and insulting those people. The same applies to their families.
They'll also sometimes realize their pattern of relationship behavior is empty and has deprived them of raising a family and enjoying what reciprocating love can bring people. Oh, and after they've burned those bridges with the people they've used, it becomes harder and harder to "score" and be with people, because as they age, the people they try to get involved with have learned and are no longer interested in being used and treated like a door mat.
So in essence, they might think they're happy now, but I don't think they're truly happy, otherwise they wouldn't continuously be using people to try and fulfill that huge void inside of them.