Now im not going to say how he betrayed my trust, because trust is trust, and it is too long of a story.
My ex boyfriend just came back to me, for the 100th time almost, telling me how he understands my feelings and that he will not betray my trust again, but he will need my help. The last time he came back, he told me he understood me too. He says the same things to me over and over, but i don't know if i can take him serious anymore.
I don't know what to do. please help me. when is enough is enough? I want to believe him, but i can't trust him again. i want to so much. but it hurts so much to think he will hurt my feelings again.
What would you do?
i feel like he is being sincere, except he was before too. the last time we were together. i don't want to risk my heart, but i love him. and he loves me so much too... i don't know.
Most Helpful Guy
In most cases once thrus is betrayed it is just gone for that person , while time may heal what they done to you it's just never as strong as it was before. You know his track record for reeling you in and casting you back... You know the odds of a good outcome V/ S a bad ending.. You know if it's worth the risks involved
Most Helpful Girl
Learn from your mistakes lol obviously he's an idiot and just loves to use and abuse girls... for me the first time would of been enough because i've been through so much crap, he would of been out on his ass lol, tell him to leave you alone and stop trying to use you, you know that he's a dick and he should stop bullying women for sex... because that is all he's after... he doesn't understand you nor care about your feelings obviously (or any other girls), be strong and put your food down and let him know your not going to be a fool this time and go running back (because that's what he wants), after a couple months he will be long forgotten, after that cut all contact and resist answering any of his texts and calls because he will probably taunt you to make you cave... don't cave to these kinds of guys because they will only keep disapointing you (been there and i told him what a dick he is lol), make him seem as evil as possible in your mind (because he is).