- No, it's not a big deal
- Yes, lines were crossed
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Being as wise as I am, I feel this is a bit awkward and I do Not mean this in a sexual way, although it's good you checked into this here, dear. It's the point where I do Not see where a grown woman who is only this "House guest,' not even a long term member of your husband's life Nor a wife should Have------Taken a bath with our 5 year old daughter.
Perhaps if she were a baby, I probably would not have said much but your daughter is nearly at the age of accountability and can remember as she gets older and This may come back to bite her where she will be questioning... why was she taking a bath with me?
Have a chat with your EX and tell him what your daughter said. Also tell him to have a pet talk with his newbie and tell her No rub a dub in the tub, even if it Was innocent. Explain to him that you are just getting all of your own ducks in an appropriate row and nothing has to get ugly here but everyone needs to be on the same page when she is visiting dad.
Good luck. x