ok I really need advice from you guys to see if I did the right thing or if I'm being paranoid or what. I met this guy a few months ago. When I met him I was a virgin. Im 19 and he's 33. Im not a virgin anymore I had sex with him the day I met him. I know that doesn't sound good at the time I really wanted to get it over with also I wanted to but I know it was wrong to do it so soon. Anyways so I met him and he asked me if I wanted to be exclusive with him I said yes and then I found out about this girl that was a friend of his. He was acting sketchy I knew something wasn't right so I basically dumped him and then like 2 days later he was dating that girl who was just a friend.
I ran into him a couple months later and he convinced me to be his friend. I agreed Cuz I wanted to be friends with the person I lost my v card too but after he told me he only started dating that girl because I wouldn't date him and blah blah and after a couple times hanging out we had sex again. He brings out the worst in me I used to be really innocent and told myself I'd never help someone cheat or lose my virginty to someone I didn't care about but I lost it I was dealing with a lot of crap and I though we were gonna end up together that's why I did it. He then told me he was gonna dump his gf but he hasn't seen her in a couple days he said he'd do it when he sees her. When he talks about his gf he is tears apart making fun of her. He said he didn't tell her about me Cuz I told him I didn't want him to tell anyone about us till we figured it out Cuz he was a lot older then me and my family is super judgmental along with my friends.
Anyways after he told me that and we had sex he didn't text me for three days and im always the one to text him first and when he texts me first it's always later in the day. He always wants to hangout late at night and he uses the excuse of his kid a reason why we can't Cuz I said I didn't wanna meet him right away At first but I th
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I am not buying that he only started dating that woman because you dumped him. You said he was acting sketchy about her from day one. I'm betting he has been dating her all along. Unfortunately, there are guys around my age who are proper wankers and use younger girls like you. It makes them feel great and young, except in reality it makes them nothing but pathetic.
Cut all contact with this guy. He's definitely not someone you want in your life. Not even as an acquaintance.1