When a girl loses her feelings for someone, can those feelings be renewed later on or is her decision final?
Most Helpful Girl
I'd say it depends on why she left or lost feelings and
How you two resolved things...
Personally I've only seen it happen once or twice
It happened once with my best friend, he kept trying and finally got her.. They're still together 4 years later and she's happy he never gave up on her
For me only once, dated, things ended badly, I didn't speak to him for six months, I was pissed
he pushed and he pushed. Finally I just gave in, we've been good friends since. "Would I date him again, probably not but he has matured a lot so maybe if we're both 25-30 I'll give it a go"
Wait twice, I took someone back once
It wasn't awkward at all feelings were still there
It was like we never took a break
He fucked up again "those feelings are absolete now"
Its honestly hard to repair broken relationships
If you're expecting her to just fall out of the sky back into your life, I wouldn't hold my breath on it
If you want to try again do so at your own discretion
"Don't expect support from a crowd or friends though"
If you really need answers and/or validation just ask her so you can move foward with your life with or without her0
Most Helpful Guy
Lol. 1. People in general have no clue how their feelings work
2. It's really unpredictable. I've known girls that flat out dumped me then turned around and begged for me back. And I've known girls that when they said it was done it was done (or was never there in the first place)
What it all boils down to is this. Get over it. It's a lot harder than it sounds I know but it's your only choice. Stop asking why she said this or did that. The answers won't help much. You got to just learn to roll with the punches. She wants to leave let her there's a reason she dated you in the first place and if she liked it someone else probably will. She lost feelings that's fine sometimes it happens no need to make a big deal out of it just keep pushing. No need to be mad or sad. You're gonna want to feel this way but that's just because of biology. But the truth is none of this is actually going to hurt you and none of this is going to have to big of an impact on your life in the long run unless you let it. It's hard to see now but that's the truth1