In all of my relationships I've never left anyone, they usually drop me and I was always cheated on. For the past 10 months I've been involved with this guy, endured multiple instances where he cheated, ignored me, flirted with people in front of me, and said he hated me. Then about a week ago something clicked in me and now I just hope he never talks to me again. He tried last night but I ignored it. I feel like a weight has been lifted, today I even sat in the sun and felt content in life. I used to basically beg him for attention now I'm indifferent. Isn't it funny how we have to sometimes be pushed to our limits before all feelings are lost? How much have you put up with and how have you grown?
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I had to grow up kind of fast for my family's situation.. So I'm not a typical teenager in a lot of ways. I dont play the game where we are broken up then we get back together and off and on again. When we are done we are done and its for the best. And I can see when a guy just wants to get in my pants. I always get told I have learned quickly what most young adults take a while to learn. But I dont tolerate it at all. I get we are all human and we make mistakes but cheating and unfaithful activities are not worth my time i am not playing that game. Go do that else where to someone more likely to fall for it. I dont have time for petty arguments and if you don't trust me then there's just not a good enough trust level for a real relationship. Also over protectiveness gets on my nerves. I can do things myself and if you're offended by those small things that I don't want you to do then you don't understand my personality. Again not a good thing you need to understand someone to be in a healthy relationship with them0