In all of my relationships I've never left anyone, they usually drop me and I was always cheated on. For the past 10 months I've been involved with this guy, endured multiple instances where he cheated, ignored me, flirted with people in front of me, and said he hated me. Then about a week ago something clicked in me and now I just hope he never talks to me again. He tried last night but I ignored it. I feel like a weight has been lifted, today I even sat in the sun and felt content in life. I used to basically beg him for attention now I'm indifferent. Isn't it funny how we have to sometimes be pushed to our limits before all feelings are lost? How much have you put up with and how have you grown?
Most Helpful Guy
Let life live girl, I have learned that a good person who is the most important part of your life is not the end of a life and the whole time you have been missing out on the one that has been in the mists patiently waiting for you to come around the corner into their arms. My point is hun... dont dwell on what hasn't made you happy all the time and focus on what's in front of you before that to is also gone. happiness may have been in front of you tho whole time, it just took you opening up your eyes to see it clearly. Hope this helps... i have just went through the whole thing for three years and I missed my happiness, don't miss yours boo0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
We accept the treatment we think we deserve.
If you have low self-esteem and think you don't deserve to be treated better, you will put up with a lot of shitty treatment. If you love yourself and know you deserve better, you won't stand for it. You will be happier being single than you will be putting up with someone who doesn't treat you with love and respect.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE