Is it better to apologize after a break up or just leave it to be because you don't want to bring up the past especially if you're trying to get back?



Most Helpful Guy

  • If you are trying to get back, then you should probably apologize but not go too deep or bring it up repeatedly.

    • What if it happened months ago though?

    • Well... in that case, just be casual with him, but if he seems too distant than try apologizing a bit.

    • Okay yeah I didn't want to bring it up ie bad memories but I don't know either if that's what we need to do to get back together. He's not distant when we're around each other but talking outside of that he is I guess so I don't know what to do

Most Helpful Girl

  • Apologize and then leave it be

    • Okay well yes I'm not going to keep at it, that's kind of mean

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  • So you're trying to get back together? You have to address that bad that's happened. Unless you two are getting back together for the sake of not being alone.

    • Huh? We still hang out I just didn't think it was a good idea to bring up the past.

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    • Can I get your opinion on my other question posted on here

    • sure why not. Give me a min.

  • I would want to apologize, were it my fault. It's just the kind of person I am. I wouldn't want to end things on bad terms.

    • We'll they did but he oviously got over it because we hang out frequently but it was months ago so I didn't want to bring up the past

  • If you truly did something wrong then I would apologize and then leave them be.

    • We'll I did but they did too

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    • I think owning up to your mistakes shows maturity and humility. Again it's only a suggestion. I just feel if you guys try to avoid your previous issue it might just repeat itself.

    • Even if it was months ago I mean he probably knows I'm sorry by now and just doesn't b want to bring up the past

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