When I was younger I used to assume breakups are easy for the person doing the dumping but now I feel like I'm realizing it seems more complicated than that. So are breakups ever easy?
Most Helpful Guy
No, they are never easy. Most breaups involve a person you've loved over a long period. And for whom you would have gone through a fire.
If things start to go wrong, the preferred solution is to solve the problem and not to break up.
So if everything continues to go wrong and "the decision" need to be made it's quite normal it feels like a couple of heavy sand bags on your shoulders!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
No, but over time it will get easier. Stop looking at his social media, stop worrying about him, and focus on yourself. I am currently in your exact shoes. What helps me is to imagine your future relationship with a guy who treats you how you want to be treated. Now, you will never get to him if you continue to stay with the man you are with. A breakup is like losing a best friend; of course it will be hard. But you need to have enough trust in yourself that you made the right decision.
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