Most Helpful Girl
Your child is growing up standing in the way of a thunder storm.
Keeping him there, and not shielding him from it isn't going to make his childhood any better.
You need to get him to safety.
Staying with someone because you have a child doesn't mean your kid will grow up well rounded.
Children become a certain age and they sense the dysfunction.
That can mess and will interfere with how they view the both of you.
Living separately with Mom and Dad (being happy),
Is better than living in an explosive environment where you are constantly watching out for mines being thrown.
If you have your child's best interest at heart, tell her you are through!
That child is just as much yours has it is hers.
DO not let her hold that power over you.
Go to court and have fair justice served.
Record her if you have to show how unfit of a parent she is.2