My girlfriend has admitted to me that she has cheated on me. She said to me "I have to admit to you that i have had sex with my ex boyfriend since we were together (it was a month ago and never happend again.) i take full responsibility for this, it did not have to do with whatever you did or how you treated me. I would understand if you would never like to see me again. You deserve someone who does not do what i just did. But i would like another chance if possible." The reson why is did this is because i am a virgin who wants to wait till i'm ready (i know that it is weird that i am a guy waiting.) but she had a lot of experience before me and was overcome by urges. Should i take her back. I told her i need time to decide.
- Give her another chance.Vote A
- Do not give her another chance.Vote B
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Personally, I believe that everyone deserves a second chance to redeem themselves. If she had done it twice or if she does it a second time, then I would tell you to just forget about her. I think you should give yourself two weeks though, and when time has passed it'll allow you to think more clearly and then you can decide whether or not to continue the relationship or just move on from it.
Ultimately, it's up to you and whether or not you think you could forgive her. If you do decide to take her back, you guys are going to have a long, serious, in-depth conversation about why she did it. You need to discuss all the details, your feelings, her feelings, just leave everything out in the open and then come up with a solution on how the relationship could improve. You can't hold it against her and bring up what she did in future fights because that's not going to help you guys move forward from this. At the same time, it going to take a while to build up your trust again and she needs to respect that. Do whatever makes you happiest.0