My girlfriend has admitted to me that she has cheated on me. She said to me "I have to admit to you that i have had sex with my ex boyfriend since we were together (it was a month ago and never happend again.) i take full responsibility for this, it did not have to do with whatever you did or how you treated me. I would understand if you would never like to see me again. You deserve someone who does not do what i just did. But i would like another chance if possible." The reson why is did this is because i am a virgin who wants to wait till i'm ready (i know that it is weird that i am a guy waiting.) but she had a lot of experience before me and was overcome by urges. Should i take her back. I told her i need time to decide.
- Give her another chance.Vote A
- Do not give her another chance.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
"was overcome by urges"
That's pathetic. Just because a girl or guy had sex doesn't mean they are suddenly animals who cannot contain themselves or be responsible and HAVE to have sex every time they get a urge. Especially with their ex 0_o
She doesn't love you if she's willing to cheat on you as simple as that.
Obviously it's your choice at the end but just a heads up.. I don't see how this will end up good. I have a feeling she'll just cheat again especially considering as to how easy you seem to be to win back after being cheated on...1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
So in the future, let's say you have a business trip and she has urges, this will make it okay to do so again? I doubt it.
Having been there myself and taking someone who had only confessed to being interested in another man (no cheating) and blamed this as the reason to our break-up... I would tell you honestly that you will have trust issues that will drive you crazy. She disrespected you by doing this... If she had such urges and didn't know what she was doing, she would have told you about it. She didn't, she acted on an urge and put your relationship in jeoprody and knowingly.
This is a major decision depending on you only. It depends on how forgiving you are but for me, that would have made me end/cut all contact with her.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE