I've never had a man that has ever loved me, not my dad, not my kids dad. And when I told a man that I thought was into me how I felt about him and how I think I'll never have anyone love me, he told me I was talking nonsense. He dumped me few months later and then told me he never loved me or even liked me and I was just *fuckmeat* to him. he reinforced what I believed that I was nothing. I've given up on men as I've been hurt enough.
i take a day at a time and I've resigned to the fact I will be alone. I'm looking to change and do something like involve myself in charity work anything that keeps me busy because I've basically stopped pursuing love. I don't know where to start to volenteer to help others, anyone have tips or advice.
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Sorry, you've had bad experiences with men.
But maybe... you should keep focusing on yourself.
Love can wait.
You need your heart to mend itself before you can even start a healthy relationship with another.
I suggest going to a homeless shelter or a school and asking if they have any volunteer work.0