My ex was a pretty hardcore gamer while I am not. while we were together, he found another gamer just like him ( a girl) and became really good friends, even exchanging personal cell phone numbers. Come to find out while we were together, this girl who lives in Washington suggested that she was going to come to Maine to visit my boyfriend and see what Maine is all about and my boyfriend was okay with it. Only come find this out the night we had talked about how things had come to an end. He says that they're just friends but I find this proposition a little weird. Wondering if there is more there since they apparently the same just different genders.
Currently my ex and I still talk. But I am having a hard dealing with all the stuff that is going on. I understand we can't plan the future, but my ex says if we move on in between this time we supposed to be focusing on bettering ourselves than so be it. He tells me he might date other girls, but won't be in a relationship for awhile since that's not his thing. He was single for at least a year before meeting me.
So my question is, do you think he's just trying to soften the blow since he knows I still want more than that? Do you think there is more going on between this gamer girl and him since he didn't tell her not to come to Maine? Do you think there still might be a chance for us? I just don't know what to do anymore and I am completely heartbroken. Should I just move on?