My ex boyfriend after 8 months broke with me 5 months ago and i did find it hard as i loved him so much. But I've been doing quite well the last couple of months as i'm now focusing on myself... career, working out and going out socializing with my friends. I feel a lot happier than before.
Anyway... all last week my ex boyfriend started messaging me on Facebook and Snapchat. Saying that he misses me a lot and feels like he has made a mistake and being all apologetic. "I generally miss being within your company" Then he mentioned that he wants to make it up to me by taking me to dinner to say sorry? I do still have feelings for him but i don't want to make it easy for him after the way he treated me during the breakup etc.. But i would like to talk to him to see what is going on between us and knowing where i stand!
Should i go or stop talking to him?
Most Helpful Guy
You seem to be doing so well with your life now. You've essentially moved on after HE broke things off with you. It sounds like he started seeing someone else and that ended up not working out, so he's now remembering all the good times he had with you.
Do you really want to fall back in love with this guy and have him do the same thing again when he realizes his desire to be with you is not love, but lust?
You seem like a very smart girl with a lot going for you right now, and I personally think it would be a mistake to see him or even talk to him. When he texts you or calls you, simply say you're glad he's doing well and then tell him you have to go. I'd really hate to see you fall back into being hurt again.1
Most Helpful Girl
I would say go to dinner with him. But remember, you hold all the cards. He should pay for dinner, since he asked you. Make him work for you. He will respect you more in the long run.1