I have been with a girl 4 years, she cheated on me once but i forgive her because I was not giving her enough attention. Last two years we saw we were quite different and I was more and more cold even though she needed atention. One day we considered we should take a break. After one month of break I met someone else and saw that I can have feelings again. Problem is that my ex was devastated and she says that she loves me more than ever now and would do anything to have me back. I do not have strong feelings anymore for her but she is a very good girl and I pity her. I don't know what to do...
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Hug her tell her she'll be fine and will love again one day but at this moment you believe it'll be healthier to try something new. Tell her your just as frightened as she is because no one knows what life has to offer but you'd rather try something new to cling on to something that hasn't worked and suggest she do the same. Tell her it's all good to contact you but you think it'll be better if you both tried to go without and move on. Or in other words. Make it all about her and growth and health usually these things make moving on easier and quicker for most