I caught my boyfriend cheating. We were together for 3 years. The man I used to love so much is now the man I despite. I don't want to see him or hear about him ever again. But it's been a month and I still often think about him and how much I hate him. I know I need to forgive him in order to set myself free and move on, but I simply can't... How do you deal with it? I need some good quotes that I can tell to myself every time this wave of hate splashes me over...
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I hate it when people say "you need to forgive them to set yourself free."
Fuck that, I never forgave anyone who told me I couldn't lose weight and make something of my life.
I held onto that anger for years, I let it drive me forward when I went to the gym. I let it drive me forward when I was at business meetings.
Hate, can be VERY damn useful. There is no fuel that burns hotter on this Earth than hate.1