i am in such despair right now i want to crawl in a hole and stay there forever. have you felt this way after a breakup? will it get better? will i fall in love again? i'm in so much pain.
Most Helpful Guy
Time will heal. I was with a girl for 2 years and we seriously thought we'd be together forever. I missed her so much that it literally hurt thinking about it. She then dated many other guys to get her mind off of me. I took the different approach, and dated no one. But soon you'll realize that there are unique things about everyone. There are 7 billion people in the world. You would immediately think that the person you can't get over is special in some way, but everyone is.
Don't worry.. you'll be fine. This happens to people all the time. There are cases of people never finding love again, but thats mostly in the movies. Most people move on in a matter of time. Some quicker than others, but don't worry my friend.
Most Helpful Girl
This is pretty typical of anyone who has gone through a break up.. and that's why so many people stay in the wrong relationship. They think they'll never find another who can compare.
Honestly, all guys I've dated have involved inside jokes, a contagious laugh, great sex, special gazes, pulling me close to him, wiping my tears, etc...
Those are all components of generally good people; they are not exclusive to "Mr. Perfect". Those qualities can be found in several people.
After a breakup, of course you will always have fond memories of the special moments you shared... and eventually they will fade away and then you'll find someone new who you are supposed to be with, and you'll share all those moments with him.
You are WAAAAY to young to assume you'll never find anyone just because you broke up. I dated a lot, broke up a lot... and found the right one when I was 30.