So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months, I was pretty sure he was the one but he's hung up over his ex, they dated 3 years and I just feel like im compettion with her, he has pictures of them still of his facebook but won't put any of us up, I know I shouldn't have let this go on but I've been trying to push it off and i am insecure but i feel like she's ruining everything and im so confused. part of me wants to break up but i know ill miss him.. he says he loves me but I hate this feeling its making me sick literally
Most Helpful Guy
You need to tell him that he seems like he's not over his ex
or there is something tied to his ex that he can't let go of her
It's not fair that you two took pictures together but he has of
yet to put any up of you and him that would make me feel bad
if a girl did that to me.. I agree he's not really interested or ready
for relationship with anyone yet cause his feelings is stuck between
her and you but he really needs to come to some kind of conclusion
on who he wants to be with and you need to communicate with him
if you don't see no changes than your best to move on i know it's
hard for you to let go of him cause you love him but the question is
who does he love for real?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
You have to break up!
I'm sorry to say! LOOK I had the same story, my ex was with his previous ex for 6 years and they broke up, but he had the pictures and everything because "You wouldn't understand all the times we had spent together"...
Then one day she got in touch and he jumped right back into that relationship... but OOPS he forgot to tell me... Regardless, I found out and broke up, even when he said he was confused etc... he wanted me to WAIT! Damn.
Let him go before it happens...
My best friend was too into a guy who was still getting over his ex, then suddenly, he said "sorry babe, I wanna go back with her" and he left her feeling like crap...
There might be another side... but, ask yourself: are you willing to suffer all of that before you make your choice? Are you ready to face it if he wants to leave you and go to her?
Humans are creatures of habit, as they say: a known evil is better than an unknown good.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE